When my sister was little, she had an imaginary friend called Jackie. One Sunday, my great aunt was over and my sister came in, announced to the room that Jackie fell down the stair and died, and left. My great auntie calmly looked up and said “how did she know about that?” Apparently, my great auntie had a little brother called Jack (her mother, who died a little before my sister was born, called him Jackie) and when he was 7, he fell down the stairs, banged his head and died.
A lot of these weren’t realky imaginary friends b or figments of inagination. But real encounters with different things.
this means a lot, my boyfriend considers him self fat no matter what I tell him. One of my best guy friends thinks no one will date him because he is over weight which is the most un true thing every. All guys bodies are attractive.
This means a lot to me too because my boyfriend also thinks he’s fat regardless of what I say. The saddest day was when I watched him step on a scale and get sad at a number he saw. Spread the love.
My boyfriend always puts himself down because he thinks he’s too skinny, :(
shout out to all my male followers (;
how is it only now that more people seem to be realising that guys suffer too? this isn’t aimed at anyone i’m just saying… i’m a guy and i hate my body, people have laughed in my face before when they found out that i hate myself because they think that only girls suffer… so yeah, boys suffer too.
people don’t seem to realize that men get objectified in ads just as much as women do, they get advertised to about being worthless if they aren’t fit/muscular/handsome/don’t have a girlfriend/don’t have a big dick. and people say that this is a “mans world,” and they get a lot of flack for not being, acting, looking, or even sounding manly enough. my boyfriend gets low about his looks compared to others, and no matter how much i tell him otherwise i can tell it still eats away at him. just like when i get low about my looks.
just remember that guys get degraded by the standards of the media just as much as women do.
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Holy shit thank youuuuu
Reblogging because it needs to be said. Also reblogging because I’m so proud of tumblr for not having the “cry me a river” comment that seems to go along with a post that goes into men’s issues and insecurities.